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January 10, 2012
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Unit Study : Chinese New Year

Last year, I created materials for a unit study for Chinese New Year for my (then) 4 year old.  The materials are mainly for lap booking.  This is how our lapbook looks like :

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

As part of the unit study, we also made a red packet envelope, Chinese New Year card, as well as practised writing couplets for the fun of it.

   

    


I realise that a lot of parents may not understand the significance of certain practices or know how to read some of the Chinese Characters.  Hence, I have included some explanations to help the parents along.  The unit study covers topics like :

1. The 12 zodiac signs

2. The name of Chinese New Year in Chinese

3. Couplets on the door posts

4. Vocabulary associated with Chinese New Year

and more.

This year we are not going to do another unit study on Chinese New Year but we are now reading some books on Chinese New Year.  I bought these books from Maha Yuyi :

This one is about the legend of the origin of Chinese New Year.

This story is about the 15th day of Chinese New Year, which is another important day in the new year period.  The 15th day is the last day and concludes the celebration.

The 2 books above do not have Hanyu Pinyin and are meant to be read-a-loud books for parents to read to preschoolers.

This book is actually part of a graded reader series but I bought only this book because I wanted a book on the story of how the 12 Zodiac animals came about.  Because it is part of a graded reader series, it is very simple, comes with Hanyu Pinyin, and my #3, who just turned 5 last week, can read most of the words.

I may create some materials based on one or more of these three books, depending on whether I have the time and inspiration.  Meanwhile, if you are interested in the unit study that was created last year, you can download it here.

 

January 4, 2012
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Sigh! Site Issues. When it rains, it pours!

If you find the site looking strange, it is because it IS strange.  Recently, this site was hacked into and a malware was planted.  When removing the virus, the clever host inadvertently deleted a very crucial file.  As a result, the site could not load at all.  Since I am not a techie sort of person, and my hubby (though a techie) is hopeless at this sort of things, and I had quite a bit of problem explaining to the technical support of the hosting company that I could not be write a file from scratch and I did not hire an expensive web designer who could possible help me, the only thing to do was to turn off the whole thing and turn it back on again.

That I did.  Unfortunately, somehow, when I backed up my data the last time, I don’t know why by WP did not back up the media files, ie. the pictures.  Hence, all the pictures are now missing.  I also discovered that some of the links are gone.  Gah!  Argh!  It is really a bummer because I do not have all the pics anymore.

Then for some reason, I cannot do Chinese characters anymore.

Right now it is a really busy period for me, so I do not have time to slowly comb through the site to restore it.  So it will take time for things to go back to normal again.

 

November 25, 2011
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A Clean Kitchen


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Everybody wishes for a clean kitchen.  In an asian kitchen, the elusive dream is to have one that does not have oily surfaces and oily fume filling it everyday.  The amount of work that goes into cooking a meal in a typical asian kitchen can be daunting : the amount of chopping, cutting and cleaning; followed by the frying and cooking; and then the cleaning up of the aftermath.  Not only the kitchen gets dirty and oily, the person cooking needs a thorough wash from head to toe too.  No wonder so many people are reluctant to cook.  In the past, people don’t have much of a choice.  Due to cost-consciouseness during a time where money was hard to come by, and the lack of alternatives, most people had to cook whether they liked it or not.  These days, with greater affluence and proliferation of all kinds of eateries, more people are choosing to eat out or buy take-out to keep their kitchens clean and their work simple (or non-existent).  Of course, there are those who just can’t cook.

Like most people, I don’t like cleaning up.  I learn to take short cuts to minimise the amount of cooking-related cleaning I have to do.  For instance, instead of mopping the floor after cooking every meal, I find a large cardboard box, like the kind refrigerators or washing machines come in, cut it open so I have a large, flat piece, and lay it on the floor next to the stove whenever I cook.  I line the counter top around the stove with newspaper too.  Now, this can be a bit of a fire hazard, so if you are planning to do the same, please make sure you do not leave your stove unsupervised!

Actually, I don’t quite get the rationale for mopping up the floor after every cooking session.  Whenever I tell people that I don’t mop after cooking, I get a sort of surprised/horrified face in response.  When I asked them why they found it necessary to do that, the response was always something about sticky floor.  Fact is : I have seriously, carefully examined my kitchen floor.  I even asked my husband.  My kitchen floor does not feel sticky after I cook.  Perhaps it is due to the cardboard-on-floor trick.  Perhaps it is because I cook rather cleanly.  The point I am trying to make is this :

Instead of inheriting a tradition from your mothers blindly, examine whether it is really necessary or not.

I know there are people who do not cook “cleanly”.  A lot of older folks love to cook like their lives depend on a very hot stove, a very hot wok, lots of steam, fume, hissing and splashing.  I always know when my neighbour downstairs is cooking : I can hear her wok banging, oil splattering, and I can actually see her cooking fume coming out of her kitchen windows, drifting upwards and into my kitchen.  I have to close all my kitchen windows whenever she cooks.  I can imagine how cooking a meal can dirty her kitchen, make her walls and floor sticky with oil.  If she is the clean sort of person, then a careful mop down of her kitchen is absolutely necessary for after she finishes cooking a meal.

On the other hand, there are people who are determined to cook so cleanly that they would not cook anything that requires a stir fry or deep fry.  Boiling, stewing and steaming only.

I kind of fall in between. I do a fair amount of boiled, stewed and steamed stuff because they are ‘clean’.  Yet I cannot imagine myself eating only raw, boiled, stewed or steamed food all the time.  I love to eat.  It is also boring for a person to only cook by boiling, stewing and steaming.

What this means is that there has to be some kind of a compromise.

I don’t deep fry that much but I don’t avoid deep frying.  It is a known fact that fats makes tastier food.  My mom’s philosophy is this : better to deep fry at home once in a while, then to not deep fry at all because you will then resort to only eating deep fried food outside which are a lot less healthy.  First of all, you don’t know what kind of cooking oil is used. More likely than not, it is the cheapest palm oil.  Palm oil does not stand out as a healthy food option.  Secondly, you do not know how long they use their oil.  It is unhealthy to use the same oil over and over again.  But people selling food to you will not care.  If you allow yourself to deep fry food every once in a while (not all the time), you are in control of the type of oil used and you are not likely to reuse the oil over and over again.  In the end, you get better tasting food due to the fresher, better oil, and you also end up eating a healthier version of deep fried food.  Without being deprived of deep fried food at home, you are less likely to indulge in it when you eat out.  Better to sacrifice the clean kitchen ideal for health.

My mother does not use a deep fryer because she feels that it uses too much oil.  I believed her until I got one for free and tried using it.  Then I discovered that :

1. A deep fryer does not necessarily use more oil than deep frying in a pan or wok.  If I use the traditional way of frying in a pan or wok, I find that periodically, I have to add more oil.  I don’t have this problem if I use a deep fryer.  So I figured it works out to be the same.  Even if it uses a little more oil than the traditional method, it is still worth considering because …

2. It is a lot less oily than the traditional method.  The oily cooking fume is a lot more contained if you use a deep fryer and keep the lid closed. The steam comes out but not so much the oil.  So all in all, it is cleaner.  Cleaning the deep fryer is another issue altogether.  Still, it beats mopping down the whole kitchen.

So it is a misconception that the deep fryer is not worth the money and the trouble.  If you want to deep fry at home, I would recommend using a deep fryer.

At this point, I should clarify that when I say ‘deep fry’, I do mean it in the traditional sense.  In other words, it means cooking food by submerging it totally in a large amount of hot oil.  Then there is pan frying, where you use a modest amount of oil in a pan to fry your food, such as patties, without submerging the food completely in the oil.

The way to cut down on damages from pan frying is to reduce the wetness of the food.  E.g. if you are pan frying a fish, then use a kitchen paper towel to pat dry the fish first.   Wetness from the food will cause an excessive amount of oil splattering and steam.  Secondly, as much as I can, whenever I pan fry something, I will cover the pan with a cover.  Obviously, when the pan is covered, oil splatter and steam cannot get out to dirty the surrounding area.  Secondly, the covered environment keeps the heat in and cooks the food faster.  The faster you cook, the less time your clean kitchen is exposed to cooking fumes and oil splatter.  Just remember when you remove the cover to check on your food, DO NOT tilt the cover.  Steam would have condensed on the inside of the cover and there will be lots of water droplets there.  If you tilt the cover, the water droplets will fall back into your hot pan and what you will get is lots of fumes and oil splatter.  Hold the cover straight and remove from the pan.

Lastly, use a cooker hood!  Get the strongest one you can find.  It really will help.   Please avoid placing your stove next to your kitchen windows or in the service area.  I know some people are fond of doing that because it helps to keep the cooking fume out of their houses.  I am a victim of such practice.  Spare a thought for your neighbours.  Just get a cooker hood to deal with the cooking fume.

After cooking, we have the cleaning up.  Remember this :

Clean as you go, and you will have less cleaning to deal with after your cook.

Do not leave garbage, dirty pots and pans, dishes and utensils all over your kitchen. Do not leave cleaning to the last.  Do not allow your kitchen to look like a hurricane just blew through it.  Clean as you go.  There will always be pockets of time during the entire process where you can quickly clean up and wash up what you have used.  Usually, by the time I am done with the last dish, I only have the wok left to clean.  A messy and dirty kitchen makes cooking unpleasant.  In order to enjoy cooking, clean as you go.

One particular point about cleaning is to keep your kitchen as dry as possible.  I know that washing and cleaning is part and parcel of cooking.  So how do we keep the kitchen dry?  Have a cloth close by to wipe your counter top dry as often as possible.  I also have a foot rug on the floor next to the sink so that I can use it to mop up droplets of water that dripped on the floor.  Why does this help?  If you have water on your floor, for instance, it will mingle with the dirty and dust.  As you step on the droplets and spread them as you walk around, you will spread the dirty and dust all over your floor.  If you have ever walked into a wet toilet with dirty feet, you will know what I mean about leaving dirty marks on the floor.

By the same token, if a piece of food happened to drop on the floor, pick it up immediately.  Even a tiny little crumb.  This is especially important if the food contains oil.  If you pick it up immediately, what you will end up with is just a little, indiscernible speck of oil mark on the floor, which can be easily cleaned.  If you do not pick up the food, someone will be stepping on it and dragging it around with his feet.  Then you will get patches of oily stain on your floor and you will find it necessary to bring out the mop and bucket.

With all the drying and picking up of things, it seems like an awful lot of things to take care of while you chop and fry.  How can anyone do it?  Well, you will learn not to splash water all around when you wash and clean.  You will learn not to drop things on the floor.  You will learn to mop up and pick up quickly.  It will be like second nature and you will do it without even being conscious of it.  Sooner or later, you will train yourself to cook cleanly.

Having said all that about maintaining a clean kitchen, I want to encourage you to just cook.  Your kitchen is meant to be used to bless yourself and your family.  The function of a kitchen is to be a place where nutritious meals are prepared.  Your kitchen is not meant for you to keep so spotless that it resembles more a showroom than a real kitchen.  If we are only preoccupied with keeping the kitchen clean and sparkling, then what is the point of having a kitchen in the first place?

 

November 22, 2011
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Review : Emoti Talking Pen (易读宝)


During the June Holidays, I bought this Emoti Talking Pen at the Singapore Book Fair.  They had a booth there and were selling the pen for S$198, bundled with $70 worth of books.  Effectively, the pen cost S$128.  On its own, the retail price of the pen is S$168.

Normally, I would not buy anything remotely electronics without my techie husband around, especially when it costs more than a hundred dollars.  But on that day, I bought this without a second thought, much to my husband’s surprise.

This “pen” is not a pen for writing but a kind of pointer.  It is similar to what Leapfrog has.  Popular Bookstore has its own in-house system called i-Pen, which works with the Robin series of English children’s books.  For Chinese books, so far, I have only seen Emoti ???? In Chinese, this is called a ???, which basically means “point and read pen”.

What do you do with this pen?  You point at the books and it will read for you!

First of all, you need to buy books that are tied up with the Pen, just like you need to get Leapfrog books for Leapfrog and not just any book.  Naturally, the company that sells the Pen, sells the books.


1. Point the pen at this Logo on the cover of the book.  This is to ‘let the pen know’ which book you are reading.

2. Point to the passage and the pen will read it for that page.

3. If you point at any of the characters, you get a ‘dramatised’ version of the story, with the character saying their own ‘lines’, which is not part of the actual passage.  My boys love to hear the characters talk.  This is still ok with me.  It is still exposure to the spoken language.

4. Wherever you point on the page, you will always get a sound.  Even if you point on a blank part, as I did in the picture, you will hear music.  My boys enjoy the music as much as the story.

5.  In every book, just inside the covers, you will find this icon.  Point at the icon and the book will read the story in its entirety.  The saleslady said that it is good for bedtime story reading.  Point at the icon to activate and leave the pen to do the bedtime reading for you!


6.  To adjust the volume, point at this icon.

As we all know, having a Chinese-speaking environment is important for the learning of the language.  Thus far, all I can do is to read story books daily, but this is still limited as we hardly speak Mandarin at home.  I bought this Pen to provide additional Chinese speaking environment for my boys.  At least they will get more exposure to the spoken language through this pen.  So far, the two younger boys (Ages 7 and 4) enjoy using the Pen.  I am thankful that they are not turned off just because it is Chinese!!

As for the books, although I cannot say that Emoti currently has a huge range of good quality children books to go with its pen, the range of books they have right now is sufficient and they do have a few good series, such as this 笨笨猪 series by famous children books author, 杨红樱.



I also bought this series of Chinese Character books for the 4 year old to supplement what he is learning from 四五快读.


The inside of the books look like this.  Just like the story books, you can point at any part of the book and there will be something there.

They also have books on Hanyu Pinyin and even English!!  They have books suitable for very young children to older school children.  Now they even have Enghlish-Chinese phrase books for adults!

Besides selling books, Emoti also sells icon stickers for the Pen.  As I explained earlier, you point the pen at different icons for the pen to execute different commands.  The icon stickers consist of a “record” icon and a “playback” icon  and this allows you to record your voice and playback.  What this means is that you can stick a sticker onto any book you own, point at the ‘record’ icon to record your own reading, and your child can point at the ‘playback’ icon to listen to your reading any time.  You can also get your children to read the book and record his own reading, and then playback for him to listen to himself!  It only costs $10 for a whole book of stickers.

My techie husband loves the fact that the pen appears as a thumb drive when you plug it to your computer.  You don’t have to download any special software into your computer before you can make the Pen and your computer talk to each other.  You can add files and delete files just as you would for any thumb drive.  Nothing complicated at all.

When I first bought the Pen, the Pen was already pre-loaded with the audio for all the books that Emoti was selling at that time.  As Emoti brings in new books to sell, if I buy the new books, all I have to do is to go to Emoti website to download the audio file and save it to the Pen directly.  Some of the series come with their own CDs, which contain the audio file so you don’t have to download from the website.  If I run out of space, all I need to do is to delete some audio files that I am not using to make more space.  Since I don’t buy all the books, there is more than enough space.  I don’t think I have mentioned it earlier.  The pen has a capacity of 4G of memory.

As for power supply, all you have to do is just to plug it to a power source to charge.  It comes with a USB cable.  No change of batteries required.  The pen will auto shutdown after a while.  Before it does so, if the pen is left idle for a while, it will say ‘Children, don’t leave me alone!‘ (In Mandarin, of course.)  I think this is very cute.  This is to remind the kids to switch it off if they are not using it.

The downside is that the books only go with this particular pen.  So if Emoti discontinued this Pen, and your old Pen is not working any more, you can’t use the books you have with other reading pens, unless they use the same system and reads the same format.  Still, all is not lost if such unfortunate scenario comes to pass.  The books are still perfectly good for reading.  Just that you or your child has to do your own reading instead of having a pen to read to you.

All in all, I am very pleased with this product.  In fact, I just visited the Popular BookFest at  Suntec Convention Centre to buy more books for the boys.  They are very happy with the new books.  If you are not very good at reading Chinese, I think this would be a good investment to have some Chinese reading time with your child.  You may still need to sit down with him to read together.  At least you don’t have to worry about reading the words yourself anymore.

Right now, at the BookFest, Emoti is selling this Pen at $198, with $80 worth of books thrown in.  You can pick and choose whatever books you like up to the amount.  If you want to buy more books, they are giving a 10% discount on books alone.  Emoti is available in quite a few book shops and educational toys shop.  Check their website for more information.

Update : I just remembered that there is a new brand of Chinese reading pen.  I believe it is also available in Popular and I have seen the booth at the current BookFest.  It looks like a cute tiger.  I had a quick look at it at the BookFest.  They do not have as many books as Emoti Pen, and the books that they have are not as good as the ones that Emoti has.  Hence, for now, I would still go for Emoti.

November 19, 2011
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四五快读 at the BookFest

I saw a whole table of 四五快读 at the Popular BookFest today! (I took a quick snap at the books, so the pic turned out blur. ) This is the Chinese literarcy programme that I have recommended before. I am excited to see this at the BookFest. Does this mean that it will be widely available in Popular outlets from now on?

If you have bought or are planning to buy this set of books, don’t forget to check out the templates for tactile character cards, which I have created to be used with this set of books, here

 

October 26, 2011
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New Menu

I added a new top menu with the different categories, e.g. Breastfeeding, Homemaker’s Place.  If you click on a Category or Sub-Category, you will reach a page with a listing of all the articles under that particular category.  This will make it easier to find articles.  Click on any article title and it should bring to the the article itself.

How is this different from the Category Menu on the right?  If you click on a Category on the menu on the right ( we will call it the Right Menu), you will see a page with the beginning of the articles.  You will have to click on ‘Older Posts’ to browse further because the page cannot contain all the articles under that category.  In other words, you won’t be able to see all the articles under that category at a glance.  The new Menu just below the Header Picture will allow you to do that.

 

 

October 24, 2011
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Teaching Volume & Capacity

 


If I pour water from one container to another, do I now have more/less water than before?

 

To adults, this is really a no brainer, but not so for a preschool who basically operates on ‘WYSIWYG’.  Lower water level means less water.

We take for granted many things which does not come naturally for young children.  Maths sense is something that can be taught and developed.   Most of the time, developing maths sense does not involve complicated CD-Rom games or worksheets.  Hands-on exploration is far more effective as the child uses all his senses to assess, explore and make deductions.

Right now, we are doing Volume and Capacity for maths.  It will take a few more sessions like the above and more time spent in the bathroom (mess containment strategy).  It makes maths fun!

 

October 7, 2011
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Page Corner Bookmarks Craft

 



The littlest one is an avid reader and gets really upset if he loses the place in the book where he stops.  So his father told him about a nifty little thing that will solve his problem, called a bookmark.  Ever since then, he has been bugging me for bookmarks.  It happened again this evening and I thought I should just do a simple bookmark craft with him.  As usual, I surfed.  (I am hopeless at art and craft stuff so I rely heavily on the internet for help.)  Then I remembered reading about page corner bookmarks some years ago, and I thought it would be easier for a 4 year old to use than the usual kind.  It won’t fall off the book so easily (I hope).

I googled and found this site that has pictorial instructions – important for an Art & Craft idiot like me.  So I got the boy all excited about doing craft and set about getting the project going.  It didn’t go that well.  I will explain later.  We managed to make one and he was happy to use it on his book.


Monster page corner bookmark.

As I said, it didn’t go that well.  The reason is because the method explained in that website is hard for small hands to do.  I did 99% of the work, which is not good as far as child participation is concerned.  You have to measure out squares, draw them, cut them.  Therefore, after I sent the boy off to play with his monster bookmark, I surfed some more to see what else I can find.  Hopefully, something more child-friendly.

I found another site that uses a different, much simpler method.  This one I am sure the boy can do.  But just to be sure, I tried it out first.  It took just a few minutes for me to make the one below using my craft punch.  All you need is just a square piece of paper, fold diagonally, cut out the unwanted triangle portion – which a 4 year old can do effortlessly – fold in the sides, glue, and you have it.



Simpler page corner bookmark using craft punch.

As for decoration, craft punch or otherwise, it is a matter of creativity and preference.  As my perceptive 7 year old said, it is just to make sure you won’t get confused over which side is the right side, and therefore won’t lose the page where you last read.

My interest is piqued and I am going to surf some more.  If I find any more information, I will post again.  In the mean time, if you just want a fuss-free version, print the pdf template out from this site.   It can’t get any easier than print and cut.

 

October 1, 2011
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Butterfly Craft

I was inspired by this blog post to do this butterfly craft with #3.  It is a very simple craft that took us 3 days to complete because I did not want to rush.


Day 1 : Take a piece of drawing paper.  Paint patches of different colour on it using water colour.  It does not matter if the patches of colours overlap each other, or even if there patches of white spaces here and there.

Day 2 : Cover a piece of canvas with acrylic paint.  Had to do two coats at least for best effect.  My little one, who is taking art lesson from an art school right now, was the one who told me that it is necessary to paint the edges of the canvas too!  So now you know : I am quite hopeless at art, which is why I have to outsource art.

Day 3 : I cut the drawing paper that was painted the day before into strips and got the boy to punch butterflies out using a craft punch. I would have loved to use a bigger punch but what we had was the biggest I could find.


Day 4 : After punching out the butterflies, they were glued onto the canvas using hot glue.  Of course, I was the one who handled the hot glue.  #3 was in charge of sticking the butterflies on the canvas.

 


The final product.  It is now hanging on the wall of my hallway.